It’s one of those tricky questions isn’t it? everyone sees everyone else differently, does it even matter if there are those who despise you when there are so many more who care about you?
The expectations of perfection some require of us is often beyond our abilities to achieve, it doesn’t always matter, but there are times, and people, where you wish it could be otherwise.
Changing a person’s entrenched perception of you is an extremely difficult, if not impossible task, I speak from experience.
Perhaps if we were all more tolerant, and less demanding of perfections in others we fall short of ourselves, the world would be a happier place.